emily post photobook press

Open Thread

January 31, 2012

Welcome to the Etiquette Daily This open thread is your space to use as you like. We invite you to discuss current and traditional etiquette. Feel free to ask questions of each other and the community moderators here.

10 comments full article

Host Homes: To tour or not to tour?

January 30, 2012

Q: When you are invited to somebody’s home for the first time, which is most appropriate? (1) Wait for an invitation to ‘tour’ the home. (2) Ask to be taken on a tour of the home. As a child, I was always taught to wait for an invitation and not invite oneself. That viewpoint has [...]

2 comments full article

Open Thread

January 30, 2012

Welcome to the Etiquette Daily This open thread is your space to use as you like. We invite you to discuss current and traditional etiquette. Feel free to ask questions of each other and the community moderators here.

20 comments full article

Public Pajamas: Appropriate school spirit days

January 27, 2012

Q: Apparently, it has become fashionable among some groups to wear pajamas in public. An example would be ‘Pajamas Day’ at a public school. My natural inclination is to be shocked by this completely unbelievable lapse in judgment by school officials. Am I wrong? A: Some schools believe having “theme” days promote school spirit. However, [...]

7 comments full article

Open Thread

January 27, 2012

Welcome to the Etiquette Daily This open thread is your space to use as you like. We invite you to discuss current and traditional etiquette. Feel free to ask questions of each other and the community moderators here.

23 comments full article

Business Birthdays: Contributing to office festivities

January 26, 2012

Q: At my office, one woman collects money from everyone on a monthly basis to “cover the cost of birthday cards.”  While I think this is a nice gesture, recently the “fee” has doubled.  What’s an appropriate way of objecting to this collection? A: Just say no politely, and without any judgment or accusation: “Thanks [...]

3 comments full article

Open Thread

January 26, 2012

Welcome to the Etiquette Daily This open thread is your space to use as you like. We invite you to discuss current and traditional etiquette. Feel free to ask questions of each other and the community moderators here.

10 comments full article

Reasonable Recognition: Appropriate wedding acknowledgment

January 25, 2012

Q: I recently received an invitation to my cousin (Tom)’s wedding. Tom and I are first cousins, although we are not particularly close. We spent time together as kids when our families all lived in NJ together, but we now live in different states. I have seen him only once or twice in the past [...]

7 comments full article

Open Thread

January 25, 2012

Welcome to the Etiquette Daily This open thread is your space to use as you like. We invite you to discuss current and traditional etiquette. Feel free to ask questions of each other and the community moderators here.

10 comments full article

Try leaving it in the car…

January 24, 2012

Have you ever had your cell phone ring when you’re at a concert or in church? Oh my gosh – how embarrassing! Have you ever checked to see who just sent you a text when you were in a conversation with someone at a social event? How rude could that be? It is so hard [...]

10 comments full article