Q. What do I do if I just plain forgot to go to a wedding, for which I had rsvp’d planning to attend. The couple are clients of mine, and the groom is a friend of a good friend. I simply got pre-occupied with family matters (three teenagers, house under renovation, etc.) and I didn’t have it in my calendar. I only realized my mistake while driving to my river cottage when I saw the signs directing people to the ‘Smith/Jones Wedding’ By then it was over! Boy do I feel DUMB
A. Honesty is always the best policy. Write a note of apology, stating that pressing family matters kept you from attending, and send it along with your best wishes and a wedding gift (if you have not already sent one.