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4 Comments

  1. Donna Wilson

    My daughter’s boyfriend’s parents have invited her to visit his family over the holidays? They bought the plane ticket. She will be staying about 10 days. Should I offer to help pay for the ticket or should I send a note and a check to help with the expenses of having her there (extra food, utilities, etc.) I have not met his parents. Thanks.

    • Alicia

      Neither. You shouldn’t do anything. Well maybe mail a regular holiday card. Your daughter should get them a kind host gift but this is on her as she is an adult if traveling to boyfriend holiday. Daughter should also be a gracious and helpful guest and speak to boyfriend in advance so knows what holiday tradition she is going to.

  2. Meg Michael

    Is fried okra considered a finger food or not? My son and I are having a debate to determine what dictates proper etiquette . Please help us settle the debate.

    • Elizabeth

      I have never eaten fried okra, but from photos on the internet, it seems a lot like a french fry, onion ring, fried mushroom or even fried chicken – all of which I would consider finger foods. (I have also eaten all of these with a fork at times, just based on the kind of restaurant I was at, or how messy the food or sauce was.)

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