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  1. Renee

    My fiance and I are having a destination wedding in March of 2015 with a very small (less than 50 people) ceremony and reception. We are unable to invite everyone to attend and we know this may cause hurt feelings, so we have tried to be very open with everyone. My FMIL is very generously insisting on throwing me a bridal shower, despite knowing that many of the people will not be invited to the wedding. I feel terribly, because I know etiquette states that everyone who is invited to the shower should be invited to the wedding. However, if I decline her invitation, that feels very rude as well. I have expressed my concerns and she has assured me that no one will be offended and that it would mean a lot to her if she could throw it. What is the proper thing to do?

  2. K. Samra

    My teenage son has been invited to a Christmas Party at the home of a young lady at his school. Should he bring a hostess gift? If so, what is an appropriate gift?

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