1. Alicia

    Even adult bridesmaids are not required to pay for or host a shower unless they wish to. I do remember being a Jr Bridesmaid and going to my aunts shower. I helped by writing the list of who gave what and by helping clean up. That is what the adult bridesmaids should be asking of a Jr Bridesmaid.

    • Winifred Rosenburg

      I agree. Another responsibility that is sometimes given to children is choosing what gift to open next and bringing it to the bride. Also if a ribbon hat is being made, they can be in charge of gathering ribbons and bows from gifts while they’re being opened.

  2. Lynwell

    That has to be the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever heard! How do they expect a NINE year-old to pay an EQUAL share of the shower??? This bridesmaid sounds like she’s a few sandwiches short of a picnic to me!

  3. jordi

    Is the nine year old supposed to smash open her piggy bank! I don’t think so. The bridesmaid needs a reality check. Personally, I don’t think she even has to bring her own gift(s) to a shower. I am sure it is perfectly ok to have her name on a gift with her mothers.

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