Q: If two girls got engaged within two weeks of each other, does it matter who sets their wedding date first? Should the second girl to get engaged wait for the first girl to set her date?
A: If these girls are sisters then it is hoped that they are thoughtful of one another and allow each other the time and space between weddings to allow family and friends to participate in both weddings. If the first to be engaged is not planning on marrying for at least a year and the second would like to be married in six months, then there is no reason they can’t work this out. Only if they both want to be married in the same month might it be a hardship for family and friends. What is important is that they talk to each other in peace and harmony, and to their parents, to work this out. If these girls are good friends and not sisters, it shouldn’t make any difference as to who is married first.