Open Thread

by epi on May 3, 2012

Welcome to the Etiquette Daily

This open thread is your space to use as you like. We invite you to discuss current and traditional etiquette. Feel free to ask questions of each other and the community moderators here.

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cindy May 7, 2012 at 12:53 pm

Many years ago I read in a Dear Abby article that according to etiquette, if you bring a gift to the shower, you are not obligated to bring a gift to the wedding. I always give both, but I’m sure I read that. Was it ever correct etiquette or did I imagine it?


Alicia May 7, 2012 at 1:22 pm

Yes you give both. Generally the shower gift is less expensive and smaller. I generally budget 20-25% for shower and 70-80% for wedding gift.


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