Q: During my yearly review, my boss asked how I was doing. Truthfully, I’d had a hard couple of months. Her concern was so touching that I got weepy and told her more than I should have about my personal life. As soon as I left the office, I felt like a fool. Now what do I do?
A: It seems like you were a little too open about your personal life, but don’t beat yourself up – worry will only get in the way of doing your job. And dont hide from your boss (good communication is key to working together). On the other hand, a warm and fuzzy friendship is not what you’re looking for (and neither is she). A onetime episode of getting the angst off your chest can be OK in the case of an empathetic manager. But now it’s time for you to turn your emotional lapse into a positive resolution: Tell your boss that you regret your tales of woe, and while you appreciate her listening, you won’t cry on her shoulder again. Then focus on doing an outstanding job and hope your higher-up has the heart to see your slip for what it was: being human.
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I am in my 40′s and have owned a home for 16 years. I have never been married but recently became engaged to the most wonderful man. We plan on “running away” to be married and plan to have a reception welcoming my new husband to family and friends. My question is, can I have a bridal shower?
If an acquaintance offers to host a shower for you, unprompted, then it is absolutely fine for you to be the guest of honor at a bridal shower. Best wishes to you both for a long and happy marriage!