Q: A coworker called off her wedding nearly two months ago but hasn’t yet returned the wedding or shower gifts she received. Isn’t she suppose to do that fairly quickly? Would it be tacky to ask her if she plans to do so?
A: Yes to both questions. She should return the gifts, with the exception of monogrammed ones, as soon as possible. If her wedding plans included a huge guest list, two months isn’t an overly long time-but she shouldn’t take longer than a few months. However if your coworker doesn’t return your gift, I wouldn’t ask her about it. You’ll appear more concerned about the money you spent than about her happiness and well-being.





