Q: The father of a woman in my exercise class died, and the group is making a charitable donation in his name (as requested by the family, in lieu of flowers). But I’d also like to do something personal for my friend. What do you suggest?
A: A handwritten sympathy note is a great way to let her know you’re thinking about her. If you wish to give a thoughtful gift, then a meal, a plant, or a picture frame for her favorite photo of her dad would be appropriate.





