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I live in a small rural community and most of the gatherings I attend are potluck. Often it is the same group of people at these events. Over the years I have noticed there are those who host and those who attend. I always make a point of reciprocating late on when we accept an invitation to someone’s house. What are your thoughts on those that eagerly accept invitations but never extend them?
It would be ideal if everyone shared hosting duties equally, but this is not always possible. Some are quite comfortable hosting, while others become very nervous at the thought of having guests over. Often people don’t have the financial means to host, might not feel comfortable with people seeing their home.
No matter what the reason, there always seem to be hosters and guests.
My Grandmother recently passed away and there was an electronic guestbook provided on the funeral home website. There is a place to respond to an e-mail for the person. Is it necessary to respond to them after what they have posted a comment.
I would think not. You certainly may respond if you wish, but electronic guestbooks do not take the place of a personal, handwritten sympathy card.