Q: The one-year anniversary of my grandfather’s death is approaching. Do I send my grandma a condolence note (she’s 82 and misses her husband terribly)? Is a phone call better? Or do I let the day go without making a big deal, since it will only remind her of her loss?
A: Letting your grandmother know that you are thinking of her is the best thing you can do to help her heal. There are many ways to reach out: Send a handwritten note, bring her a home-cooked meal, offer to spend the evening together, or simply telephone her to “say hello.” What you choose depends on your grandmother’s personality and how she feels as the day nears. More important than you specific action is the fact that you take one-any genuine gesture will be warmly received.
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