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From the monthly archives:

December 2009

Stained Sofa: Dealing with messy guests

by EPI Staff on December 24, 2009

Q: At a recent party, a friend spilled red wine on my beige sofa slipcover.  She apologized but never offered to pay for the damage.  The dry-cleaning bill is sizable.  I don’t want to start a fight, but shouldn’t she pay up? A: Absolutely!  But she didn’t-and it sounds like she’s not going to.  Here’s what [...]

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Open thread

by EPI Staff on December 24, 2009

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Bedroom Bedlam: Handling your kids holiday visits

by EPI Staff on December 23, 2009

Q: What can I do about sleeping arrangements for my son, who wants to bring his college girlfriend home for the holidays?  They say they won’t come if they can’t share a room, but I don’t want to send my 16-year-old daughter the wrong message. A: No matter how indignant your son becomes, remember that [...]

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Open thread

by EPI Staff on December 23, 2009

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Postal Present: Traversing mail carrier gifts

by EPI Staff on December 22, 2009

Q: I’ve heard that mail carriers aren’t allowed to accept tips.  How can I thank mine? A: According to the U.S. Postal Service, employees may receive gifts valued at $20 or less, per occasion.  Since some people like to give throughout the year, it’s worth nothing that there’s a $50 annual cap per giver.  Also [...]

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Open thread

by EPI Staff on December 22, 2009

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Respecting Religion: How to navigate the holidays

by EPI Staff on December 21, 2009

Q: I have been invited to a Christmas Eve choral presentation that will be followed by a Mass.  I am not a Christian.  What should I do while people are kneeling, receiving Communion, and praying?  I don’t want to look out of place. A: All you need to do is sit quietly while your friends [...]

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Open thread

by EPI Staff on December 21, 2009

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Q: I had a baby this year and have just gone back to work.  I have zero time to shop for Christmas presents.  How do I communicate to everyone outside of my immediate family that I need a year off from buying-and receiving-gifts? A: Is it the prospect of hitting the stores that has you [...]

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Open thread

by EPI Staff on December 18, 2009

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