Q: I’m the mother of a newborn and not up to the three-hour drive to my in-laws’ annual Thanksgiving dinner. My husband and I would like to invite the family to our house, but I’m not sure I can handle all the cooking, either. Is there a polite way I can ask guests to help out?
A: First, get a reading from your husband on whether he thinks his family will be open to this idea. Is your mother-in-law the type to be adamant about hosting the dinner at her house? (And is this something you really want to take on, even with help?) If you get the green light, make a list of what you’d like to serve; then when you’re inviting your guests, ask up front if they’d be willing to make something. If the answer is yes, let each guest choose from your “what’s needed” list. It’s customary at holiday meals for family and friends to pitch in, so it shouldn’t be a problem. Just don’t forget to give your guests enough advance notice and to thank them for helping you. Also, don’t forget that your husband can help too. While he may not be a stellar cook, there are certainly things that he do to ease your burden.
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“Just to forget to give your guests enough advance notice and to thank them for helping you.”
I think you mean “just don’t forget”.
Driving 6 hours round trip will actually be a lot less work, even with everyone helping out, than having them at your home!